Thinking of you Always..... You are Forever Loved and Missed Sweet Angel!! Big Hugs and Kisses are being sent your Way!!! xoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoox
LOVING YOU IS A GIFT OF JOY
LOSING YOU IS A PRICE OF LOVE
MISSING YOU IS MY ENDLESS, UNDYING LOVE
I CAN'T ACCEPT THIS POEM BELOW, FOR LOVE IS FOREVER
BECAUSE DEATH IS NOT A TERMINATION BUT A CONTINUATION
TO ANOTHER UNIVERSE WITH GOD, JESUS, BLESSED MOTHER...
MISS ME... IT IS EASIER TO SAY THAN TO ACCEPT IT... I CAN'T LET YOU GO, SON.
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free
Miss me a little - but not too long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love that we once shared
Miss me - but let me go
For this is a journey that we must all take
And each must go alone
It's all a part of the Master's plan
A step on the road to home
When you are lonely, and sick of heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds
Miss me - but let me go
AUTHOR UNKNOWN
MY SWEET ANGEL, MAY YOUR LIGHT SHINE ETERNALLY IN HEAVEN
PATRICK, YOU BECAME A BUTTERFLY WAY TOO SOON... BUT I HAVE TO BELIEVE
THERE IS A REASON GOD CHOSE YOU TO FLY AWAY FROM ME... PLEASE WAIT FOR ME AT
THE GATE WHEN GOD CALL ME HOME. UNTIL THEN PLEASE STAY CLOSE TO ME, FOR I NEED
MY SON IN MY LIFE SO DEARLY.
MY BUTTERFLY FLY INTO MY DREAMS MORE OFTEN.
THANK YOU FOR CHOOSING ME AS YOUR MOTHER EVEN FOR A SHORT TIME.
YOUR MEMORIES ARE MY TREASURES. BE AT PEACE, HAPPY GLORIOUSLY.
YOU ARE SAFE IN MY HEART, SOUL, AND LIFE FOREVER.
I wanted to say that I am so very sorry for your loss of your precious son. I too loss boy at a very young age 20 in a very tragic car accident. I know exactly what you are going through when you speak of anger, confusion etc. and how we are left to mourn the ultimate pain of grief for our beloved sons! In reading your story in how Patrick loved Michael Jackson and passed away several weeks after, I thought about my son as well. One late morning Allen came out of the shower and told me and my daughter that Michael Jackson had passed away and of course we just didn't believe him and joked with him in how he believes every forward texts he receives. Then later the news breaks in with the death of Michael Jackson. I just thought to share that as we too were on the same topic during those tragic times.
I learned about my son's accident on the morning news that ugly hot summer morning at 8:00 a.m. I was watching the morning news when I witnessed my son's x-tera flipped over! I just knew as a mother that it was my son! I went crazy and remembering just vomiting with nerves and fear of what came next! This is also not a very good way for a mother to learn of her child's death! So like you I am so very angry, confused, hurt and depressed as to why????
Your sweet angel by now has met mine and they both among there angel friends will forever be in our hearts. Remember that with Christ there are no goodbye's or ends and one day we will see our beautiful boy's again. That's what I hang on too to keep sane! So please underneath all your pain and agony; keep the faith.
It's been hard as I am sure it has been for you too, and if you like to talk please e-mail me at Norma5474@yahoo.com
An angel mom, Norma
PATRICK, MAY THIS LIGHT BRING YOU PEACE, GLORY, AND HAPPINESS
PATRICK, MAY GOD KEEP YOU SAFE In HIS KINGDOM ETERNALLY!
GOD, PLEASE, SHOW ME THE WAY TO UNDERSTANDING, HEALING, AND FAITH
HELP ME FOLLOW YOUR PATH OF RIGHTEOUSNESS, COMPASSION, FAITH, AND
THE WISDOM OF YOUR WORDS... THE INNER PEACE OF YOUR HOLY WORLD.
FOR I LOVE AND MISS My SON DEEPLY.
HELP ME ACCEPT MY GREAT LOSS
HELP ME UNDERSTANDING MY GREAT PAIN... AGONY
HELP ME WALK MY JOURNEY OF GRIEF FAITHFULLY
HELP ME ACCEPT YOUR WAY... YOUR PLAN
FOR I KNOW NOW THAT I CAN ONLY LAY OUT MY FUTURE...
FOR YOU PLAN EVERY HUMAN BEING'S FUTURE... DREAMS AND HOPES.
MY HUMBLE HOPES AND DREAMS ABOUT MY SON PATRICK WERE
JUST THOUGHTS, LOVE, AND DESIRES FOR MY SON.
BUT, I HOPE I HAVE THE POWER TO HOLD ON TO MY LOVE, THOUGHTS
PRAYERS FOR MY SON PATRICK DEEP INTO MY HEART AND SOUL
FOR IS THE GREATEST GIFT OF LOVE YOU GAVE TO ALL MOTHERS
THE MOMENT Of CONCEPTION... BEAUTIFUL LIFE IN OUR WOMBS.
FOREVER DOES NOT EXIST IN THIS LIFE On EARTH
BUT FOREVER DOES EXIST IN THE HOLY LIFE IN HEAVEN
BECAUSE IT IS YOUR LIFE...OUR ETERNAL WORLD.
IN THIS CASE HELP ME PREPARE MY DESTINY FROM YOUR HANDS
HELP ME SEE IT IN YOURS EYES, YOUR BEAUTIFUL HEART BESIDE
YOUR LOVING SON JESUS AND OUR HOLY MOTHER MARY.
FROM MY HEART TO ALL OF YOURS TO MY BELOVED SON PATRICK.
I LOVE YOU ALL!
HELP US UNDERSTAND AND TAKE IN HEART EVERY WORD Of
WISDOM THAT WILL KEEP US WHOLE, PURE, HAPPY AND TRUE
TO OURSELVES.
I've learned that ...
"I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.
I've learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something.
I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.
I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.
I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.
I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down may be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learned that I'm getting more and more like my grandma, and I'm kinda happy about it.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've learned that you should never tell a child her dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if she believed it.
I've learned that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to.
I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.
I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learned that if you don't want to forget something, stick it in your underwear drawer.
I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I've learned that the clothes I like best are the ones with the most holes in them.
I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.
I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.
I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves, get further in life.
I've learned that many things can be powered by the mind, the trick is self-control.
I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.
I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.
I've learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.
I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meanings, it loses value when overly used.
I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.
I've learned that no matter how fast or how far you go, you can't outrun God.
I've learned that no matter how far away I've been, He'll always welcome me back.
I've learned that love is not for me to keep, but to pass on to the next person I see.
I've learned that even if you do the right thing for the wrong reason, it's still the wrong thing to do."
- Author unknown -