Patrick Christian Barbosa

I think of you and your precious son often. He and my daughter were born in the same year. I pray they have met in heaven. I am so very sorry for your loss. You are going through all the first's without your precious son and it is such a painful journey. It is good that you can share it with others who understand that the loss of a child is a grief like no other.  We carry our children close to our hearts before they are born and we continue to carry them in our hearts as we watch them grow and mature. I remember very little from that first year except the horrible pain of losing my precious child. It is a pain that is difficult to put into words. My heart goes out to you. Thank you for all the beautiful candles you light for my Lauren. I miss her so much as you must miss your son Patrick.

Please know that my thoughts are with you and I carry your son Patrick in my heart.

Jo-Ann, Lauren's mom always and forever.

Dear Lost Mom,

I'm so sorry to read your loving words you write...I can feel how much you are hurting and how angry you are! The first three years of my daughters passing was so hard...your words are echo's to my ears and heart! Your in a world of grief, a world of sorrow, a world of anger, a world of lonlieness, a world of hate, your living, but your not living!

Your son hasn't even been gone a year...everywhere you look, your reminded of him, everywhere you go, your reminded of him, you want to talk about him, so you don't forget him.

Just know all your feelings and thoughts are normal...and never will you forget him, nor anything about him. The best advise I can give you is to grief the way you have to, and talk of him as much as you want to. Talking about him, will help release your fears, your anger, and your hate! After all when you mention his name, how could you feel anything but love!

I'm so sorry you have to go through this and the worse part is...for people who have never lost a child, they can only IMAGINE what your going through...there is no way a person can feel the dark

hole that a parent or even a grandparent feels when a child dies!

Anytime, you want to talk, or if you'd like to share your sons life with me, I'd be glad to listen and I'd be honored to share thoughts and things of my daughter with you. My e-mail is www.polopool@yahoo.ca

I hope for your birthday you get to feel the presences of your son, and may God grant you the strength to help you to heal!

Sending you a big big hug XO

Donna Mom to Angie Robert

HAVE A BLESSED, PEACEFUL, HAPPY DAY!

HAVE A GLORIOUS JOURNEY IN HEAVEN!

         MY ANGEL PATRICK CHRISTIAN

PATRICK, MY BEAUTIFUL GUARDIAN

ANGEL, I AM STILL WAITING FOR MY

BIRTHDAY WISH TO HIT MY HEART,

MY WHOLE BEING... I NEED TO FEEL YOUR

PRESENCE. I PRAY FOR GOD MERCY TO GIVE THAT ANGELIC REWARD TO YOU FOR YOUR LONELY MOTHER. AMEN.